POLL: At what age did you first masturbate AND orgasm?

Hey everyone! I’m curious – what age were you when you figured out how to use your equipment? I don’t mean, “Hey, what’s that thing….,” I mean when did you decide to explore if something happens if you don’t stop touching it?

I was probably between 10 and 12 as I’ve mentioned, and I haven’t stopped since! I’ve always found orgasms to be therapeutic for me in that they physically feel good, help put me to sleep, and are fun as hell to work up to!

So go ahead and vote, I’m anxious to see the results.

Comment and tell me – what event or thought led up to you touching yourself the first time? How did you react to your first orgasm? Is masturbation something that was taught, ignored, or shunned in your family? And what gender do you identify as? Talk to me!

 

27 thoughts on “POLL: At what age did you first masturbate AND orgasm?

  1. I was about 13 I think… Found lesbian porn and BAM. Yeah, basically. Nothing too fun or adventurous but yanno. You could tell I was gay from a younger age, I’d only watch lesbian porn cause straight porn didn’t interest me (ouch!)

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  2. I was 5 , I started playing while I was on the toilette. When I came it shook my whole body starting from my toes to my head. It was amazing. The Cum was clear…I will always remember it.

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  3. For me, 19. Never really had an interest in sex up till then cause I didn’t realize how good the payoff was. I was in my first apartment with a porn mag I bought slowly stroking myself when that bastard hit me like a pile of bricks. It felt great. And I felt foolish for not doing it soon. I made sure to get caught up for lost time.

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  4. Mine was @ 9. Playing hide and go seek. I hid between couch and wall. While trying to get out accidentally rubbed the corner of couch against crotch and wait a sec…. rewind…play it again…then again several more times and then got tagged because I became so dizzy from the orgasm I couldnt hide next round.

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  5. I was about 10 now that I remember.. It was by accident.. I had a weird itching sensation down there.. I itched and stroked and bucked.. It felt good, but I didn’t know why.. Leap forward to a few years later and I had sex dreams during puberty.. I dreamt of a female once.. Freaked me out.. I am heterosexual, and realised it was just hormones!

    Then clitoral stimulus wasn’t enough-Hairbrush handles became used.. I realised I could squirt because of vaginal masturbation! Catholic guilt made me stop a few times.. But I don’t feel bad now! Sexual exploration of self is a lot safer than having multiple sex partners.

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  6. My ex was quite the expert with flicking the light switch rapidly 🙂 Also an expert with the “Semi Secret” G-Spot masturbation, any time I didn’t want sex or was to knackered, or thinking of the 26 year old next door etc, she would set the bed a rocking, I didn’t care, soon woke me up or gave me energy, still had to picture the neighbour though, mmmm.
    She found a GIF on my phone of a bikini clad pair of breasts being bounced to “Bouncy, Bouncy bouncy bouncy”
    She went bloody spare, it wasn’t even Carry on camping with Barbera Windsor, so imagine my surprise a few years later while snooping through her phone (yeah, naughty, I’d had 7 years of it and worse so figured it was payback) i noticed that Vaulty App, strange thinks me, what could possibly be on that apart from a few videos of us that I’d taken while she was drunk.
    Sheer luck opened opened the App as it was 1111 and I was greeted with 8 videos downloaded from pornhub, mmm thinks me, can’t be hers, she bollocks me for a 4second clip of carry on, but they were hers and it got worse (or better depending on taste) The vids weren’t men and women, or even women and women, the they were just women, women pretending to be 18, “I’m 18, watch me wank”
    I watched them all, for two weeks before mentioning it and then the CRAZY explainations started, although there was no need cos I was well down with it.
    No 1) “I downloaded them by mistake” mmm, what, all EIGHT? Then you thought these are such a mistake I’d better not delete th them, I’ll put them in a secret drawer called Vaulty.
    2) The Clinton defense – She watched them but didn’t enjoy lol.
    3) I downloaded them for us to watch together, I was away working at this point but was home in a day only to hear this bullshit
    “I’ve decided I’m not into it now, I don’t want to watch” Fair enough gorgeous don’t worry, but couldn’t you like WAITED ONE MORE HOUR AS A LESBIAN YER PISS TAKING BITCH? 😦
    4) And then came the crème de la crème, bullishit on oyster jizz.
    Get ready cos it’s a bloody woozer, “I only downloaded them for masturbatory techniques”
    Pardon? You wanted to learn to wank again at the age of 40 odd, after 30 years of clicking the button, flicking the switch, filling the void and squirting the lady juice?
    You woke up and decided two ways for you to cum like a leaky washing machine just weren’t enough and there must be another way? A secret held by Tibetan monks and Indian yogis with their tantric sex, but you thought bollocks to seeing them, I’m downloading teens and watching them do the Human water pistol.
    She didn’t even download women her own age, freaky.
    Masturbatory techniques, JESUS WEPT LOL,

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  7. It took me a while to figure out how to masturbate. My Catholic school teachers said it was NOT as sin but I didn’t really understand what IT was. My first attempt was to use my mom’s enema bag anally. It was fun but I KNEW something was missing. Then, sometime in my sophomore year I had an inspiration: what if I just SHAKE it? A way of life was born.

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  8. I remember it like it was yesterday. I was 12. And I was thinking about an older version of Gohan from Dragon Ball Z and myself making love in a field somewhere. Little did I know at the time that there was going to be an older version of him coming in just a few short years. But I like my version a lot better. ^_^

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  9. Interesting that you should follow me. I go in streaks–desire, no desire. Raised religiously, so I still feel some sense of what I was taught and it not being right or moral or whatever. But going for it seems best–I have an easier time giving up chocolate (but not much!).

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  10. Yess! This post is everything! I’m a lesbian and when I first masterbated I was like 10 or 12 too. I use to watch porn when I was in elementary school and I use to loveee watching this one girl that always put a show on just for me live and everything. She was my first crush! Lmao My first orgasm was great andI just kept on at it! I remember my aunt catching me for the first time masterbating and she just said to me, “You know you ain’t doing nothing” but in reality I was working up a sweat! I’m not sure how my family reacts to masterbation but I’m sure just about everyone does it. Haha!

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  11. I got started early, I was about eight years old when I started jerkin the gherkin. I remember my brother used to chastise me for it (we used to share a bedroom as kids). He was all smug about masturbation, always sitting there on his high horse saying a bunch of crap about how he has better things to do with his time than tickle the pickle. But just like any guy who says he doesn’t do it, he was probably lying

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  12. It would be interesting to have separate polls for males, females and others: I feel there is a pervasive denial of early female masturbation (here gives plug for own post featuring a blog with a girl’s “confession” to watching porn and “touching” herself – naturally leading to counselling: well for her parents it was natural…..)
    https://copine1and2.wordpress.com/2014/10/01/random-post-girls-and-computers-jamies-story/
    I’m writing erotic fiction that includes elements of young masturbation and sexual experiences: in this climate I’m sure even Smashwords wouldn’t touch it… I remember dry wanking (I’m male): weird because you can have a much longer orgasm than when you actually ejaculate – better in some ways.

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  13. 11 seems to be the median age in your poll and it was so for me too. When climbing a rope at the school gym I felt a curious sensation when I pressed my crotch hard against the thick Manila. Could not do too much at 12 feet above the ground but later tried something similar at home and oh, boy, did it work!
    I included a story about a first orgasm (female) in my story “Runaway Chair” and included in the bundle “Rent-A-Maid and other stories” (https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/505159) Go and have a look

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  14. I have been doing it since I was about 10 or 11…and it wasn’t manual, I’m sure my parents had a couch with the cushions “glued” together because of my exploits.

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  15. I always thought I was a bit of a late bloomer, but your stats seem to suggest I was very much in the ball park, but then again I am right up against the limit of the age group. My ‘late bloomer’ belief was fueled by the fact that everyone in my peer group were (seemingly) rubbing away with great enthusiasm (the dorm room literally reverberated with the sound of bunk beds shaking away all night long), whilst I just had no real interest. I tried, I really did but, well, nothing was happening down there. Then one night, after over a year, and whilst at home I decided I needed to just do this. And, well, WOW! It happened, delicious…

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    1. I am so happy to see more people are feeling comfortable revealing this form of masturbation. A few years ago I could not find anything on the internet about this. It is more common than first thought.

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  16. Just to say I really love your blog! I actually was a lot younger than 16 when I first discovered masturbation but I never finished it actually made me ashamed and even cut because I felt I was doing something wrong! At that age we hadn’t learnt about it at school and no girls at 13 would ever admit to it. Now I’m 23 I obviously don’t feel that way and think it’s healthy especially if your single and crave sex like I do!!

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    1. I feel like a lot of younger girls think that its a shameful topic to bring up too. I remember my first experience too and not exactly knowing whether or not it was okay at first because no one around me ever really spoke about it in a positive light.

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